Questions to change anything:
What is this?
Can I change this? If so how?
What else is possible here?
What is so right about (my family, my child, me) that I am not getting?
What is so right about this situation that I am not willing to acknowledge?
How can I be in more allowance of this (me, situation, this person)?
What question can I ask?
What would it take for parenting to create more ease and joy in my life than I could ever possibly imagine?
How does it get any better than this?